In this video, Rabbi Dr. Sharon Shalom, the founder and director of the International Center for the Study of Ethiopian Jewry at Ono Academic College, tells a powerful personal story about dignity, identity, and quiet leadership. He shares a memory of his grandfather, Abba Dagan Gideon Mengesha, and a moment that left a lasting impression. During a tense confrontation at a student dormitory over a boy wearing a forbidden necklace, emotions were high and authority was being enforced.

Instead of escalating the situation, the grandfather stepped in calmly and reframed the moment. By recognizing the necklace as a meaningful symbol tied to Jewish heritage, he shifted the tone from conflict to understanding. His quiet authority and deep respect for tradition led to a peaceful resolution—without humiliation or force.

This story highlights the power of wisdom, restraint, and seeing the deeper meaning behind people’s actions. It reminds us that true leadership is not about control, but about elevating others and preserving their dignity, even in moments of tension.